There is one truth I dare say about Love and that is that you must reinforce and reinvent it every day. When I was watching this movie, I saw this was so true because you must conquered your significant other every day. You must do this with little details that are extremely important like a flower once in a while, a song, a hug, a walk--I could go forever-- or actually imagine that your couple does not remember you-- like in the movie--, so you have to make him/her fall in love with you again and again. Thus, you will avoid routine and your relationship will be enriched.
Another important thing is that you must learn from your couple. This means that you must know him/her so as to know what they like, what they dislike or hate and what is meaningful to them. Without knowing your couple, your relationship will most likely be based on superficial aspects.
I say this with almost no experience at all, but for me these are important things about love. I would hate to have a boyfriend that does not know what I love or hate. In addition, I would also be annoyed if everything we do together is the same every day, or if he does not have time to talk to me and discuss topics about our lives.
In this movie, we see Adam Sandler making Drew Barrymore fall in love with him over and over. He does it, not always successfully, but he loves her so much that he cannot stop trying. At the end, he marries her and must keep on loving her and making her love him. It must be really hard for him to meet her one day and she is mad or she does not remember him and the next day she is happy and so on.
I guess Love is mostly about sacrifices we must do for the others, just as Henry in 50 First Dates. If we are not willing to do this for someone, we do not really love that someone.
To: no one, since nobody reads what I write, sad isn't it?
What do you think about Love?... just give your opinion
